Not all ‘single’ women are depressed, lonely, attention starved, and desperate for love and affection. Most are fun-loving, thrill-seeking and happy people who don’t give a hoot about your opinion. It is therefore surprising to be labelled inappropriately by “desperately-depressed” individuals who wouldn’t recognize love if it bit them in the ar*e; people who continually find fault in another’s enjoyment of the single life.
The dream of ‘most’ women is not the picket fences, houses and babies. The dream is to be independent enough to take care of her own shit. That maternal instinct, though not completely obsolete, does not overrule her desire to be successful in life.
In the past, women were underpaid, unappreciated and undervalued, but there has been a huge shift in the paradigm, as women are now reclaiming their rightful place in society and in their homes. Women have broken barriers career wise across every industry from the military, to sciences, technology, business and governance, but it doesn’t matter what she does, or how much she’s accomplished, she’ll still get judged. She will get judged for being educated; focusing on a career, and making a living rather than being a homebody. Judged for being independent, even when she’s got no one to depend on. She will be judged for not finding a mate and getting older. She’ll get judged period!